While the social networking sites are flooding with “zonal” humor, phrases like “friendzone” “friends with benefits” are sneaking into urbane dictionary. If I were to label these phrases, I would label them as “labels”.Arent they?
If a girl refuses to take a relationship further than friendship its called” friendzoning”. This classification manages to throw a very mean light on the girl
All right lets just stop and ask,” does a friendship or intersexual relation always have to end in a cock-cunt association?”
Was there a previous agreement regarding where the relationship was heading?Is the girl REALLY obliged to say YES?
Come to think of it,if she said yes to all her friends wouldn’t she AGAIN be labelled a slut??
So whats so mean about it when she says”I dnt look at you that way”? And where is the freaking devoer to do so?
And all that fuss about ” trying to break out of a friendzone” ,pardon the cliche but a friend IS an indispensable part of life. if you arent comfortable with being a friend call it quits! Whats with all that bitching?
And then ” friends with benefits”
WHY do we have to label things that arent resolved yet….that may be are on the way to something deeper…may be growing??
How do u define it when,
You adore him, respect him,are sexually attracted towards him, care for him,need him but you are not just ready for the big step cause you cant trust him or yourself enough?
Friends with benefits?? Are you kidding me?
See…all relationships cant be defined and they dont need to be.we are HUMANS with complex cellular structure and even more complex sentimental mechanism
Why do we need to be labelled when we dont need to be sitting on supermarket shelves, labelled for consumer convenience?
And how can we label relations,emotions so superficially and yet take ages to understand them,justify them?
Lets just leave labelling at supermarkets and labs and GROW UP.